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Garnet's Journal

February 12, 2006

My Shadow

Dear Reader,

There are all kinds of families. Mine is small. I live in a big building with my Mummy and Papi. My Papi leaves the house every weekday to play with the kids at his office. The Mummy has an office in the big bedroom and only plays with me. I feel sorry for her. She must be lonely when Papi is playing at his office. Every so often I insist on napping with her just to give her company. To make her feel special, I hold her real tight. I don't want her to fall off the bed and out of the room without me.

As much fun as she is, I don't always want one-on-one time with the Mummy. I guess you could call it too much of a good thing. That's why I love school. I go to school part-time. Supposedly she works in the big bedroom office while I'm at school. All I know is that for a few days a week I'm free. But I'm not completely safe. The Mummy's my classroom representative to the Parents' Association. Every time I turn my back she's talking to one of my teachers, or worse, one of my friend's parents.

Other kids have sitters take them on outings. The Mummy takes me. Most of the time I'm so excited to be at the museum, park or zoo that I don't care if she's with me. But I think she needs a hobby. She has too much time to think about me and where I spend my time. That's why she follows me around the playground. It's fun to do art projects with her at home but on the playground a toddler needs space.

The Mummy doesn't always work in the big bedroom. When a job keeps her busy outside of the house, I have a blast. My Papi spends extra time with me or the pushover sitter comes by for play dates. The best is when my Grams watches me. When the Mummy is working I get all my favorite foods. I stay up late. I even get to watch television. It's amazing.

It wasn't always this way. When I was a baby my Mummy had an office just like Papi. She used to go there early in the morning after my sitter came to rescue me. She did that for almost a year before she switched to the big bedroom office. I think that the kids at her old office didn't sing, dance, read, and play as well as I do. That must be why she stays home because she spends a lot of time doing these things with me. I don't always mind.

Although I get tired of her, I like having her around when I'm sick or have an ouchie. Sitters and other family members are great but nobody beats the Mummy when I have an upset tummy. She's always here when I'm sick. When that happens she doesn't work in the big bedroom. All she does is take care of me.

The good news is that I am not stuck with the Mummy tagging along with me forever. Big kids tell me that in a few years I will go to school every day, all day, and she can not follow me. Just the thought of that makes me giddy.

I see all kinds of families around Gotham. The kids look happy in most of them. Some families are cooler than mine. Some seem just as corny. I can not imagine trading my amateur parents for another family. That's because the one thing I can count on above their silly ways is that the Mummy is always here.


See You Later, Alligator,
Garnet (with his shadow)



See Mummy's essay: A Womanist in the House

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